My name is Wanda, and I'm pleased to meet you. I'm a big girl with something extra, a T-girl who's not looking for surgery.

I'm still feeling my way around SOI, so if I say or do something to insult or disturb you, it's almost certainly unintentional. And I apologize in advance.

Here's the deal. There are people around here who are sure they know how the world works, or is supposed to work. And they see everyone through their own glued-on prisms.

It works for them, but I find that limiting. I have my own background, but that doesn't mean that I shouldn't be able to converse and interact with other people who have different views and attitudes. Besides, if I only wanted to hang out with a single clique I would have done well to write my home page a lot more specifically.

So, just consider me a reasonably intelligent and mannered person with a cooperative and open mind, and hopefully we can move positively from there.

Oh, and it's Wanda. Not Ms Wanda, not wanda, not Lady, not girl. Just... Wanda.