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I am a bisexual male Sswitch in My early 40s. I first discovered my attraction to BDSM through experimentation with bondage and spanking in a relationship which has so far lasted over 20 years. (It is, sadly, now entirely vanillla.) I maintain a deep and continuing interest in both bondage and domination/submission but because it takes two to tango BDSM is largely absent from my life.
Much of what I know (or think I know) about BDSM I learned online. I would like to thank all the kind and helpful folks I met in the alt.sex.bondage newsgroup, at Bianca's Basement and at the State of Insanity who made me feel welcome. Only a few of Tthem are listed here.
My idol and role model is Gomez Addams, but I prefer a Morticia who doesn't say "Not now, Gomez" quite so often ...
I wrote this description of myself and my fantasies for a personal ad seeking a Dominant Male. I wrote and posted this pathetic appeal in what must have been an attempt to drive Dominant Females away. And very successfully, i might add!
I have written a number of stories and poems, both humorous and serious, on BDSM and other sexual themes. I have used the Minstrel Bi handle since 1991. Links to some of my writings can be found here.
I am a resident of the Boston area. Although I am not active in the local BDSM scene. I maintain BDSM chat, corkboard and resource link lists for New England and to a lesser extent New York State. If you would like your homepage or your organization's homepage added, please email me. (They are arranged by state, so please include that information.) I am also compiling a list of lists of USA and International BDSM Resources.
These are just sites I like.