Me!: Hi....I'm Redhed...a.k.a. Carla. A lot of people were wondering about the spelling of my handle so....smile...when I first came here a couple of years ago, the correct spelling was taken, so instead I chose the h-e-d spelling. When Redhead came available, I took it. This was in the heyday of #r-z1... and my 'family' there said they preferred the off-beat spelling to the traditional one ...grin... so I kept them both and alternate on occasion..

My Life: I met the love of my life here at soi in late 1996..big 'ole grin..his handle was Pretender... we live together in Wyoming USA and are incredibly happy. He's loving...kind...gentle...and treats me like a princess...happy sighs...We were married in July of 1998 and I can't imagine any two people being meant more for each other! Our v/t wedding album is #r-just4us. Only those closest to me, who know what I've gone through to achieve that happiness, can truly appreciate my situation...soft smile.. suffice to say I do have a very special room here... #r-syra in which I try my best to help victims of r/t abuse, domestic violence and stalking. I'm happy to say it's not an oft-used room, but it's there for anyone who needs help or advice. Mother Nature here at soi can also help you if you're in need of assistance. She's her a lot so you shouldn't have any trouble finding her in #r-soi.

What I do: I WAS a professional skiptracer..meaning I found people for a living...heh..heh..heh.. they can run but they can't hide is my motto...I'm very good at what I used to do and provide a lot of happiness in the world by reuniting adoptees with their birthparents, among other types of 'locate' cases, including abducted children, estate heirs, and of course...making a face... some extrodinarily bad guys, having a client base that includes private investigators, bailbondsmen, and 'certain governmental agencies'... Nowadays I spend all my time at eBay, the online auction site. I spend my weekends buying antiques and collectibles and sell them online at great profits ...lol...it's a fun job and I get to have some awfully nice peices to decorate my house for a few weeks at a time. Pretender also shares my love of treasure hunting and together we have a ball at the auction houses!

That's it for now.. I may be adding more to this page, like links, pics and stuff...however not at this time....so this'll have to do for now, folks! I'm not here nearly as much as I used to be, and for Pretender and I that's a good thing...'cos boy, do we have FUN in r/t together!

YEEEEHAAAAAAAA!!!