me


I am a 38 year old slightlycurvy bisexual switch who in rt and vt practices the polyamory lifestyle in an open relationship with my husband in rt.

I pride myself on conducting myself here as i do in reality ..and with that in mind, i always list my handles and the reasons for them on my homepages..I feel it cuts down on any confusion as i have many facets to my personality.


One of my handles is my rt first name Shalane and my primary handle is poetry in motion because i enjoy writing and reading poetry.

i also took back the name surrender to starlight just because i like the name

i am also the lightbringer as i am called this in reality

Recently, i was gifted a handle, petslut, from my lovely heart sister, enigmation and her former Master Dark Archangel which is there to remind me how accepted i am and though un~owned, i am Protected. I am ever so honored to wear this name and the lovely chained petplaycollar and leash that they gifted me and it is there to remind me of my sense of belonging. This name is my primary submissive handle.

I sometimes utilize a few roleplaying handles which are not that difficult to figure out but ask me if you are that curious"*chuckles*

I believe in full disclosure and being honest and having fun. I enjoy reading, writing, roleplaying and intelligent conversations.I also enjoy being witty and expressing my humor. I am generally easy~going and fun~loving but possess a bit of a darker~mysterious side at times.I may seem impish and mischievous at times but i show due respect when it is earned, know my place and adhere to the old guard ways and protocols while serving and being served.

I am not here to play games. I take this life less ordinary very serious rt and vt ..Perhaps my perpetual dreaminess is a fault...perhaps my believing in the good of people might be construed as a weakness ...but I don't think so. Just so like the yin yang, I have the light and darkness within. A poet's soul in an earthly body. Some might call me wild and untamed, some might call me weird. Above all I am real with the heart of a Leopard and a soul of a poet~..I don't really come here to heed what others think I might be ..I march to the beat of a different drummer, yes ..but I am here to make friends and guide ..and be guided ...

Anything else just ask me .......

Please do not touch me without prior knowledge of me and please do not whisper or mail msg me when i am in public chatting.Please respect me and my friends whom i am chatting with to come into the room i am in and chat with me there. Of course there is nothing wrong with a quick drive by compliment or quick hello from someone i know ..otherwise please ask before whispering me