He can be found most frequently at #r-heathers(Lady Heather's Mansion), but he does not belong to Her.
She and he are merely friends of long standing, with mutual regard and respect for one another.
He does not grovel, he does not beg, and he does not serve. He will only serve his own Dom if and when he should ever have One again.
Yes, you read right. Dom, not Domme.
}moth{ is homosexual, and so even though he is friends with many Dominas and female submissives, he will never serve One.
To any interested Domini? Don't approach him like a tasty treat or toy. He's not interested in a quick grope and poke in the dark somewhere, for a moment's pleasure, and then casually dismissed. If You are not serious, then don't even bother.
Oh, and don't ever, ever treat him like a sissy, femme or a girl.
Or call him boi.
Condescension is not appreciated.
Respect and submission are an earned gift, not a God given right.