mickie

Hello, and welcome to my homepage.
If you have bothered to come this far, then you are either nosy
[Not a bad thing, by the way] or interested in getting to know more about me.

My name actually is mickie, its not just a handle but what i am called on and offline. I am a 41 year old single mother of three. (2 teen 1 adult child)

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I am a submissive by nature, I enjoy making people happy, I enjoy making them laugh. Seeing them smile, and or - for the right people, bending to their will and embracing the mutual satisfaction of D/s. I am currently unowned, and not looking to change that. My life is far too hectic for me to get serious with anyone just now, but I always enjoy making new friends.

While I know D/s online is a pale comparison to offline, it does not mean I do not take it seriously. I put just as much heart and soul into my studies as I would if the proverbial "He" were here with me in the real world. It is just as deep for me, just different, at least for me.

I am not in soi for the quick fuck, and those that I do spend intimate time with, have earned that right, just as I have earned the right to what ever time they gift me.

Do not assume that because I am a submissive, I am a trollop or a door matt. I am strong willed and opinionated, but i do try to balance that with a basic human respect for mankind....

Unless they prove to not be so human. I have learned about the wonderful power of the ignore button and will happily use it as needed. I have been through too much drama in hyperchat over the years and I have no desire for more.

That said, I also have an open door policy for my room, any one is welcome for a first visit.. your behavior sets the tone for if there will be a second or not. I can not tolerate blatant rudeness, an attempt at trolling, or general harassment.

Most of the people who come to my room, I have known for or close to a decade now on a near daily basis. They are my family, accept me, accept my friends. I am generally an open book, ask me anything, I will usually answer...but I reserve the right not to.
A) I never know who is listening and B) somethings I am just not up for telling a stranger.

Being an open personality, I also can't stand whispers/mails from strangers when i am obviously in an open room. Want to talk to me? Compliment me? or the room? Please do it in the open. Want to know me better? Then it really, really, is best to come into the room.

I have learned that people who tend to only want time in the shadows, do it for not so good reasons.

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I am also an avid role player in the fiction realms around soi, so yes, i have many handles and names i go under. I also have names that were given to me by special people, so i have more then one ooc handle I will use. I just don't have the heart to get rid of them. Want to know them all? Ask..but do try to know me a bit first under one of them.. I have been stalked here in soi, and would rather not repeat that experience either.

Currently, there is one who has chosen to serve me. While I am submissive, I used to be a top. So I have chosen to lead this bright special soul on a quest. Understand that I am very protective of what I claim. [More to come as i think of it]

'Love without a Dream, will not survive'

I disregard the proportions, the measures, the tempo of the ordinary world.
I refuse to live in the ordinary world as ordinary women.
To enter ordinary relationships. I want ecstasy.
I am a neurotic -- in the sense that I live in my world.
I will not adjust myself to the world. I am adjusted to myself.
~Anais Nin