Don't ask a lot of questions that will not be answered.
Just go with the flow.
This persona is a Gender-Flex.
When dealing with hypnosis this means triggered to male or female and believing her/his-self to be that gender.
When dealing with magic, this persona can assume either and be fully either,
maybe in the near future even assume a neutral gender.
As for sexual orientation, totally Bi-sexual.
As for D/s orientation, S/switch.
Just assume all other characteristics as your mind chooses to fill in,
and go with the gender of the persona's current avatar.
Not here for RL, RT, Reality, so please let that go too.